I admire the friend open-minded. Life is full often, enjoy yourself, you must give yourself the reduced pressure, reduced pressure the good method is to learn to forget, life need to be able to get up, sometimes to put next is more important. There is a small story in buddhist scriptures, said the young monk and the old monk go together, the little monk, a respectful for alms toward what looked at the teacher, went to the river, a woman should cross the river, the old monk take up woman over the river, and the woman, hum, the young monk left after heart has been thinking about, how can the master back that woman across the river? But he and were afraid to ask, walked 20 in, he was true to can not contain, asked the teacher, we are monks, how can you back that woman across the river? The master said flatly, I take her back to put down across the river, but you back her 20 in haven't put down.
Big words full of zen monk, think carefully, and also is the life of truth. The life of people like a long, hard, keep walking along the way, will see all kinds of scenery, after many difficulties, if the walk through to see the past never forgot to heart, will give oneself increment a lot of extra burden, experience the rich, the greater the pressure, as well as all the way along the way to forget, always maintain a clean SLATE. The past passed by, the time may not flow back, in addition to learn lessons outside, can need not to heart.
Willing to forget is a kind of psychological balance, need to come true to life. Some people are able to forget in adversity embarrassing and distress, but to his prosperity with relish, or do you not know that the success and failure in the past, as always, often can't get to dwell in the past said I am young, and how that would how dot-gone when sight, let beauty ephemeral in the heart, always remain complacent, smug and unto you and in vain, it will be adventurous, gets cold feet. No mention of that brave hero is reasonable. And repeated chewing the pain of the past, always a face of bitterness is more slim. India poet tagore said "if you miss the sun, you also cry will lose the stars." For trivial haggle over every ounce for Chen, sesame rotten rice, if you put your mind much of the heavy burden of the memory of the boat, canoe, can let not bearing painful past pin down the future. An old saying goes: the angry is that taking the other's mistake to punish oneself. Always yearned others, in fact, especially the disadvantages of the is their own, let bygones be bygones, is happy relaxed ones.
Forget the need to choose, some people, some things in your life can't forget, not to forget. Arab famous writer ali, once and friend who, Martha two friends travel together. Three people walking through a valley, Martha slip in fall. Fortunately, just pull him hard friend who will he rescued. Martha so near the large stone head without: "once upon a time, a friend who saved misha life." Three people continue to go for a couple of days and came to a place the river, with Martha were for a small matter of noisy, friend who flay play misha a box on the ear. Martha ran to the beach on to write down: "once upon a time, and one friend slapped the other one in the face." When they travel after come back, ali curiously ask Martha is why the friend who saved him on the stone, will play his friend who you wrote in the sand? Martha answered: "I never grateful friend who saved me, I'll keep that in mind. As for him to play me, I only with writing on the beach of disappear, and just forget". This story tell us, remember others help to you, for your bad forget others, this is the person of duty.
Many people like to such a vernacular poems: spring flowers on a autumn is cool winter, summer have snow. If have no way to hang the heart, is a good time to earth. Remember some things, some people forget something some people, remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten, free and easy life, friends who stood by, you will feel that life is so good.
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